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Here’s what I wish you knew. 6 min readRead More Marriage & Partner RelationshipsSocial RelationshipsWhy difficult conversations are worse for people with ADHD 8 min readRead More Marriage & Partner RelationshipsSocial RelationshipsBlame shifting: when someone you love puts it all on you 9 min readRead More Marriage & Partner RelationshipsMental HealthThrough the valley of the shadow of emotional hyperfocus 4 min readRead More Mental HealthParentingUse a sensory bedroom to give children with ADHD a personal oasis. 4 min readRead More Audio narrationsDid ADHD help our family prepare for COVID-19?Use a sensory bedroom to give children with ADHD a personal oasis.ADHD’s hyperfocus spell: what it is and how to break it6 things I do to help my ADHD time blindnessWhy difficult conversations are worse for people with ADHDBlame shifting: when someone you love puts it all on youHow it really feels to be time-blind with ADHDI understand basic cause and effect. My ADHD makes it look otherwise.Reframing household tension when others’ ADHD negatively impacts us“Let’s be chill.” Or, how to maximize stress on a one-night trip.How I manage my ADHD and maximize productivity in front of a screenPart of knowing my worth is remembering what I’ve accomplishedCalm in a crisis, frazzled under the overhead light“Too smart” for ADHD: a note from myself at 17Is the coronavirus pandemic ADHDers’ time to shine?Is “time blindness” an ableist term?Lessons on navigating the ADHD medication shortageFor women with ADHD, social relationships bring up lots of hard questionsWhy our ADHD family opted out of in-person school (for now)A quick rescue remedy for overwhelming ADHD emotionsHave ADHD? 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Here’s one thing I miss and one I really, really don’t.How to regain focus when you’re stuck on a big project (Project Engineering Series, Part 2)Busy but not productive: 5 productivity killers (and how to fix them)How academic ability masked my obvious ADHD as a kidI’m a woman with ADHD. Here’s what I wish you knew.How I keep perspective on failure with Adult ADHDLoosen task paralysis with one small thingThere’s more than one way to avoid tedious prep for a fun project 😉How to get places on time when you have ADHDThe Apple Watch: good for people with ADHD? Or just another distraction?Why I won’t call my ADHD a gift (it’s about privilege)Stuck and overwhelmed? Look for the smallest possible win.It’s easy to fall behind. Trying to buckle down and get caught up doesn’t help. ADHD & Time PerceptionTime Management6 things I do to help my ADHD time blindness 9 min readThe Apple Watch: good for people with ADHD? 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